I’m pretty sure I was 13. I was rail thin but not very flexible, yet after a lot of trying I was able to touch the tip with my tongue. I knew that it was significant but I wanted more. This was around 1987 so I had no way of knowing others could do this, so I figured fully sucking it was impossible so I gave up.
I didn’t find out others could do this until I was in college so I tried doing it again but had no luck. Years later I had an apartment and all the privacy I needed to practice several days a week. I found photos and videos of others doing it and used that at motivation.
Finally, just after my 28th birthday, I made contact again and with several more months of practice, I was able to get the tip between my lips. I never progressed past that though and last did it almost 5 years ago when I was 46 years old. I had been doing yoga for a few years but Covid pit the two studios I went to out of business.
I also started having lower back and hip discomfort so I have been hesitant to start working on it again. Seeing no gains aside from being able to make contact with less effort was frustrating. I feel like I reached the limit of what my body can bend.
One of my biggest regrets is that I didn’t keep at it when I was younger. If I wasn’t so impatient I likely would have reached my goal and would have partaken in this activity as often as possible, or as much the little privacy I had would allow.
Doing this has been a dream of mine for 37 years now and seeing videos of others doing it is still erotic as hell and is my go-to when watching porn.
